Same here, ordered from att store 2 pm on the 9th, no history of order on website or at 611, no cc charges yet, crap, if I have to wait 2 weeks then I am going to make sure I get a free case or something.
AT&T's internal sales system is asking staff to tell customers that any pre-orders made on Saturday the 13th or later won't ship on launch and instead will reach retail locations between 7 and 14 days after the order is made, overshooting the release date.
That is completely true, because when I called AT&T today the guy told me that, and he said that's what he has to say and laughed. Apple, on the other hand, assured me to have it shipped to my house instead to avoid the lines and that it will be there the 19th. I'm banking on that lady right now...
You should be fine. I ordered mine the 11th and still haven't gotten shipment confirmation yet and status is still the same at not yet shipped. I think their system is a little overloaded so not everyone's status is changing on time and the emails are going by what would happen on a normal basis. I would still call to be absolutely sure, I wouldn't want tell you that you are fine and then you end up being the one they screwed up the delivery date on.