I just recently purchased a iPhone. I consider myself a pretty technical person but I must say I am stumped on why I cannot get my ringtones to sync with out my music and videos on my iphone being erased each time. I can overclock my computer but I can't sync a ring tone! LOL Any way here is the deal. I am converting my songs in itunes to ACC and then renaming them to m4r files. I drag it back into the itunes library where I see it in the ringtones area of iTunes. However here is the problem. I manually sync music on videos for my iPhone because I don't want 2000 songs on my iphone! So when I go to try and sync my ringtones it gives me a pop up warning stating that "Syncing ringtones will delete music and video from your iphone. Are you sure you want to do this?" So my question is two parts. How do I sync ringtones with out losing music/video data on iPhone and how do I get the ringtones to show up in the sync area of the iphones "Ringtone" tab? I try to drag it from ringtones itunes library to the iphones ringtone library but it does't show up on the Ringtones "tab". Sorry if it sounds confusing.