I'm new to this but thought i'd try it because i need help. I have the iphone 4s and it wont connect with itunes on my computer. I used to be able to use it on my moms laptop but that one no longer works it's fried so i'm tryin to use my laptop. It don't even show up with it on itunes. On my phone it says " sync will resume when (my mom's computer) is available." It's no longer ever going to be available so what do i do? I have the up to date itunes so i don't understand it...Please any help? Thank you in advance!