If you really need SMS, there is Google at least. They are offering SMS alerts for sports as well though I don't know about women's. I think for women's sports, you'd be better off with what kokogirl suggested.
Go to espn mobile and sign up for the alerts. You can sign up for individual games, seasons, sports, etc. I think it will do exactly what you want it to do. I use it when I can't make it to a TV to watch a game and it works great. The site is mobileapp.espn.go.com.