I met this girl a few weeks ago and we've hung out a few times. She's really got some great qualities but i'm having a hard time reading her. She say's she doesn't know if she wants a relationship right now with school and other things but when she comes over we end up messing around. It starts with just cuddling and leads to more. Mainly because she says something to challenge my manhood. For instance, last night..we were just lying together and I started to rub my fingers through her hair and touched her ear. Well, she jumped and I jokingly said " are ya good" and she said "yeah, I have great self control" . I took that as a challenge so I started kissing and biting her neck and jumped on top of her. Etc. Etc. Etc. That's the stuff that happens. I like spending time with her but im so confused with where she's coming from. One minute she's telling me there are other fish in the sea but in the same breath she say's she interested. She has mentioned to me before that she's trying to not like me because she doesn't want to get hurt but if that's the case she's got a hell of a way of going about it. Im also confused about myself as well. I just lost my grandmother a few months ago and I took care of her single handedly for 8 years. That was a HUGE loss for me since she's the only mother figure i've had. I don't know if i'm trying to fill that void by attempting to jump into a relationship or what. What do you guys make of this situation?