Laugh..the preorder was a joke really.
I walked into my att at lunchtime, with no pre order or anything, and walked out 20 min. later with a 16gb.
There were PLENTY of phones to go around. The preorder was just to get a lot of hype and lines outside of stores to grab headlines.
Hope you get yours...on the other hand, im a new iPhone user and it will take me some time to figure this out....lol.