My 4 yo daughter was recently playing with my iPhone 3G (iOS 4.2.1, 8 Gig) and locked me out of my device by entering the incorrect passcode several times. I've done some research online and I understand that there are some fixes out there that I can use to bypass the "iPhone Disabled - Connect to iTunes" error message-without losing my valuable contacts and personal data. Could some kind soul please give me step by step directions to recover my phone without restoring it back to it's factory condition (and losing all of my information)? Any help would be greatly appreciated...BTW-My phone is not jailbroken.