Mine either
When I first got my phone about a month ago, iTunes wouldn't recognize it. After good charging period it worked fine.
Now again I have the same problem. My phone is fully charged, and when i plug it into either just a straight usb or the dock, it makes the little noise like it recognizes it, but it doesn't fire up iTunes. It kept asking about what to do (Vista) such as open the photos with explorer, or some other photo option or do nothing. I have never modded anything on my phone, I have norton internet security which coould very well be blocking something, but i have no idea what to do about it.
I've soft reset my phone, ive restarted my computer, and i am so Friggin sick of re installing iTunes its not even funny. PITA
Otherwise I think these phones are great, lol.
EDIT- OF course now just like everything else I seem to own, car, computer, phone, game consoles, as soon a s i start bitchign about them acting up and not working right, they manage to work just as their supposed to, go figure...... <shrug> I take it all back