Mine does that too. I have a 2012 Hyundai Accent and directly plug into the system using the Hyundai iPod cable and Apple's 30 pin to lightning adapter. It's annoying for sure, but it's the car, not the phone. I'm pretty sure there is nothing you can you do. I've learned to live with it...When I start my car with my phone plugged in to my cars stereo it always starts playing the first song starting with A. I pause what I'm listening to when I stop the car. Is there a setting that I can use to start playing the song where I left off?
Is there a way to set a ringtone without using a computer?You would need to sync the ringtones made with the apps into your iTunes library to get them onto the phone. Apple doesn't allow the apps to directly add a ringtone. The only way to get a ringtone onto the iPhone without a computer is by buying it from the iTunes store
The apps make .m4r files that are saved in their documents folder, which you can then use iTunes to save onto your computer.
Connect your iPhone to your computer, and go to the sync screen on iTunes (where it shows your iPhone name, capacity, etc.). From there, go to the Apps tab and scroll down to the Documents section. Select the app, you will see a list of the files in its documents folder. Any ringtone files you've made in the app should show up there. Select the files, and click "Save" to choose where to put them on your computer.
Double-click an .m4r file on your computer to add it to the iTunes library.
Lastly, make sure you're syncing ringtones in the iPhone sync screen ("Tones" or "Ringtones" tab).