We are different, nothing wrong with that, imagine how boring this world would be if we weren't.
Man like different things (I'm speaking for my self here to be more precise) communication is very important for us, like Dave said give us space when we need it, You like flowers? We like lingerie, You like candles? We like a video game or "hey, why don't you hang out with your friend this weekend"
That doesn't mean we don't appreciate you.
My girl loves me for who I'm, I do anything for her and she does the same for me, I tell her when she's wrong or if something bothers me and she does the same. And about romantic? We are boys, if you know a guy that likes romantic like a candle dinner and stuff, good for you all, that's just not me, but if it happens, I appreciate it and love her even if she didn't.
Now let me go play some skyrim.